believe happiness in their life will come once they find a great guy. "It doesn't work this way. It's the joy within you that will make you both happy and attractive to the opposite sex. to ourselves and our partner. We end up setting our- selves up for relationship failure." cheese and pickles, and believe that will make us hap- py," she says. "It doesn't! All it does is puts demands on someone, and that's a turnoff." partner. Qualities are often superficial while values are about what you need in order to live your life authenti- cally; they are firmly-held beliefs about who you are and what you see in others. As an example, a quality may be money, while a value is financially responsible. Qualities fade, values don't. into picking out kitchen cabinets than who they want as a life partner. Take time to find someone who shares the same values as you do. remain friends. Having male friends is a great way to be around the energy of the opposite sex when you're not dating anyone. knocking good people out of the game based on silly things that really aren't important in the big picture. Look for companionship and someone with whom to have fun and share life. diately. Sometimes it takes women as many as four dates to feel the spark. ship. The two of you can choose to live together, live in separate homes but still be in a committed relationship, or choose to marry. There is no one right answer. too! refocus on the qualities you fell in love with when you first met. For every negative thought you have, reframe it with three positive qualities and watch how this changes your view of the special person in your life. Remember to compliment your partner. We all love compliments and encouragement from the special person in our life. Believe in the law of attraction that our thoughts are our reality and the messages we put out to the universe come back. is what will show up. Be happy to see them. Give them hugs. Connect. Communicate. Don't expect things. Make time for each other. Make time for yourself. Plan dates. Be selfless think of what you can do for them versus what they can do for you. those around us. Dating Formula For Women Over 50: 7 Steps To Attracting Quality Men. For more information, including a free report about The 5 Little-Known Secrets for Finding a Quality Man After 50, visit www.FindAQualityMan.com or call 815.683.6108. |